{"id":3110,"date":"2014-11-10T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2014-11-09T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nllanguagep-bali.savviihq.com\/blog\/uncategorized\/how-to-keep-the-conversation-going-learning-small-talk-in-english\/"},"modified":"2023-10-30T20:12:07","modified_gmt":"2023-10-30T19:12:07","slug":"small-talk-in-english-how-to-keep-the-conversation-going","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/languagepartners.nl\/en\/blog\/english\/small-talk-in-english-how-to-keep-the-conversation-going\/","title":{"rendered":"How to keep the conversation going \u2013 learning small talk in English"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Not everyone likes making <strong>small talk<\/strong>, especially in a <a href=\"https:\/\/languagepartners.nl\/en\/language-courses\/\">foreign language<\/a>. Yet small talk is important for getting conversations started, which is crucial in doing business, winning a job interview, networking or making new friends.<\/p>\n<p>By its very nature, small talk\u2014those casual, spontaneous conversations that take place, often to fill awkward silences\u2014is a form of friendly interaction. In the English-speaking world, it\u2019s common and used to break the ice, interact with strangers, keep conversations going in order to learn more or to simply enjoy ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>But doing it doesn\u2019t always mean it\u2019s easy. Small talk can be difficult for native English speakers, too, though we have one distinct advantage over <a href=\"https:\/\/languagepartners.nl\/en\/language-courses\/\">English language learners<\/a>: a wide vocabulary. This allows us to speak spontaneously when most English learners stumble for words\u2014and lose their confidence.<\/p>\n<h2>Some suggestions for learning small talk in English<\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/languagepartners.nl\/blog\/engels\/how-can-reading-expand-my-active-vocabulary\/\">Read widely<\/a>. Build your vocabulary on numerous subjects. You can relate your new knowledge back to a conversation.<\/li>\n<li>Improve your cultural awareness of what makes for good small talk. Neutral subjects like: the weather, news, sports, jobs, traffic, or the Internet work. Avoid subjects like politics, religion and personal salary.<\/li>\n<li>Learn conversation starters like:\n<ul>\n<li>Beautiful day, isn\u2019t it?<\/li>\n<li>Did you order this sunshine?<\/li>\n<li>Looking forward to the weekend?<\/li>\n<li>Has it been a long week?<\/li>\n<li>You look like you could use a cup of coffee.<br \/>\nPlease find these and more conversation starters <a href=\"https:\/\/www.englishclub.com\/speaking\/small-talk_conversation-starters.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li>Learn some English slang<\/li>\n<li>Learn English phrases for agreeing disagreeing with someone\u2014and tactfully, too.<\/li>\n<li>Practice your listening skills. Listening is key to any conversation. Go online, listen to <a href=\"http:\/\/culips.com\/esl\/audio\/CB46_SmallTalk.mp3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">podcasts<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=nT72ON0Tz0M\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">videos<\/a>, and learn to identify the subject and the speaker\u2019s point of view.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t be shy<\/h2>\n<p>Finally, practice, practice, practice. Once you\u2019ve learned new phrases, talk to friends, think of what you might say before you attend an event, and don\u2019t be shy about approaching native speakers.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Not everyone likes making small talk, especially in a foreign language. Yet small talk is important for getting conversations started, which is crucial in doing business, winning a job interview, networking or making new friends. 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